I've thought about doing this too! Except it would need to be organized in an orderly fashion, and it would definitely have to be more than just a meet-up. We'd have to think of events, something that would make people want to come hang out with us. And just having it be a picnic or teaparty is too similar to Lolita Picnic, I think.
So, really, in order for the panel thing to work we'd have to do something more like a Q&A, video viewing, you know, something with a clear cut agenda and a clear cut leader, that type of thing. I was thinking about running a charm school-type panel teaching proper young master and butler etiquette, but I was kind of on the fence about how many people would show up to something like that.